What I'd like to teach my child from the beginning

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Sustainable choice in the kitchen: knitted kitchen towel (gifted by Der karierte Hund)

Sustainable choice in the kitchen: knitted kitchen towel (gifted by Der karierte Hund)

Our son is three months old. Although I´m aware he doesn’t understand everything that is going on around him yet, I believe it´s never too early to start being a role model. I have never been keen on the whole ‘you have to do this and that’ approach, even during my previous teaching career. The method I prefer is a tender one. It is one where I keep in mind that my actions, as well as the way I speak, can influence my child’s behaviour. Of course, only time will tell if my beliefs are in line with my son’s, but I can do my best to set an example. I can guide and show him one way of living by sticking to my values. The proof is my own upbringing. Not everything I was taught back then is necessarily how I choose to live today, but there are certain things I do because I already noticed them in my childhood. There is one nursery run in particular that I will never forget. Our house was close to the nursery building, so it was easy to walk there. On the way we saw rubbish in the street. My mum explained that leaving rubbish out like that would harm the environment. It was just one comment, but it had a big impact on my future attitude towards recycling. That is why I think it is important to remember that what I say and do may potentially have the same effect on my son. No matter if it’s how I treat other people or myself, the way I express my beliefs and opinions, my appreciation for my surroundings or the way I consume. It all starts at home: my relationship with my husband and how we live our life. What I would like my son to see and learn is that we are kind and respectful towards each other. I would like him to remember that we stand up for equality, that we care about our environment and make sustainable choices. The thought of him growing up knowing that he can grow his own food, support farmers and local artisans as well as make choices that could lead to the environment being harmed less, comforts me. As I said, I don’t want him to know these things because I conditioned or forced him to believe them. I’d like him to be aware of his choices because he sees his parents living by their values, making their owns decisions.

Words: Katharina Geissler-Evans

Images: Benjamin & Katharina Geissler-Evans

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Sustainable choices in the kitchen - knitted dish cloth, organic soap & hand lotion (all items gifted by Der karierte Hund)

Sustainable choices in the kitchen - knitted dish cloth, organic soap & hand lotion (all items gifted by Der karierte Hund)

I pay attention to what companies I support: The plaid and kelim cushion cover are from labels who make a positive difference. The elephant is made from 100% organic cotton (All items were gifted by Der karierte Hund)

I pay attention to what companies I support: The plaid and kelim cushion cover are from labels who make a positive difference. The elephant is made from 100% organic cotton (All items were gifted by Der karierte Hund)

I try to reduce rubbish by using an eco lunch box, a flask and fabric napkins (all items gifted by Der karierte Hund)

I try to reduce rubbish by using an eco lunch box, a flask and fabric napkins (all items gifted by Der karierte Hund)